Friday, September 30, 2011

An Apology

This is an apology post.

I messed up.

The other day I posted about coming home to a messy house and having to clean it up. I also posted about having to do housework and get the kids up and ready for school while hubby doesn't.

I crossed the line. Hubby is upset. This post is not an apology to hubby - I need to do that in person. This is an apology to anybody who knows him who read the last post. You know how great he is. I do too. We're all lucky to know him.

I never meant to cross any line. This post was supposed to be fun, but in stead of fun, it became selfish and hurtful to hubby. I never meant for that to happen.

I didn't write it in a huff or anything. I was laughing inside (in a loving way) while writing it.

I'm fairly new to this whole blogging thing and I think I let my imagination take over and spew into public reading. I got caught up in the writing part (I was never a good writer) and when I'm on a roll, I get excited about it.

I'm not sure how he found out about this post. It's not secret or anything, but that's irrelevant. I invite him to read my posts. I want him to be proud of me.

So in an effort to try to amend my idiotness, I just want you all to know how wonderful hubby really is and how happy I really am in my little world.

I have the best hubby ever. He's also the worlds best Dad (next to my own of course :D). He does so much to provide for our family and I wouldn't have it any other way.

I'm quite private in my posts - I don't name names. I want my blog to be fun - good and bad fun (if that makes sense) but not hurtful to anybody. I'm not that type of person.

In an effort to respect the fact that he's not really into social media and doesn't really want to be "out there", (I'm totally cool with that)  I'll leave it at that as far as the message about how great he is.

Sometimes in life you screw up. I guess that makes us human. It's what you do to learn from those mistakes that matter. I'm not perfect - far from it. This isn't the first screw up and it won't be the last.

Hubby I love you.

4 comments:

Michael Ann said...

Well, if that doesn't smooth things over, I don't know what will. That was lovely. I didn't read the original post (this is my first visit here--very nice blog). Blogging is a tricky thing. Writing a column, article, anything like that--if it's family oriented, it's hard to know what we should share and what we shouldn't. I'm sure you hubby will forgive you!

I am surrounded by boys in my house too. Even the pets are all males! Love it though. :-)

Joining you from VB.
Michael Ann
The Big Green Bowl
Thinking in My Head

Denise said...

I think it's sweet you made amends this way as a start. I believe it will be okay. I found you on the no rules hop and I am now following you. I hope you will take a moment to stop by my blog and check out my kind of fashion (hair jewelry). I'm not just trying to gain followers with hopping, I'm trying to spread the word about a product I love. Here's my url http://talesfrommyjournal.blogspot.com I left my facebook and twitter link on the hop too.

Barbara said...

That's sweet to make amends...I'm sure your hubby still knows how much he does and how much he means to you.

mmbear said...

It is hard to know sometimes what to right. I usually will do a (Ha Ha) if I was joking about something so that the reader and person I was writing about knows it was all in fun. Sometimes, they don't see it that way but you made up and that is all that is important. Stopping by from the blog hop and now a new follower of your blog thru GFC. I would love a follow back when you get the chance. Thanks so much for your help and have a wonderful weekend! Oh, by the way, I am having my first giveaway, Eclipse Spa Products, and would love for you to enter.

Mary@http://www.mmbearcupoftea.com